He Calls Me Friend...

I don't know about you, but I don't have many people that I would consider "best friends."  Don't get me wrong, I am not someone who is all alone.  I have several (hundreds) of people that I would consider "friends."  I think this is probably a true statement for most people.

During you teen class Bible study on Sunday mornings, we are studying Proverbs.  This Sunday, September 18, we will be walking through and unpacking some key scriptures from Proverbs 18.  I know that most of you don't care about all this info., but I had to tell you all of that to get to this.  Proverbs 18:24 says, "A man of many companions may come to ruin..."
At first glance, this verse seems pretty depressing.  I am "a man of many companions."  Based on that fact, this verse tells me that I might "come to ruin."  What depressing news.  Despite the fact that I might have many people there to surround me and support me, I might get destroyed.   I might get wiped out.  This is not good news.  The verse doesn't stop there.  "...but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."  This is great news.

Friends may fail me and leave me.  Friends may turn their backs on me and put a knife in mine.  Friends may not be there when I need them or want them.  Friends may choose some other person to befriend or hang with.  Friends may say "forget you."  Not this friend.  He sticks closer than a brother.  He calms the storm with his words and gives a promise of making it safely to the other side.  He forgives me after knowing all my failures.  He accepts me for who I am, but loves me too much to leave me that way.  He died so that I could live.  There are not many people in my life who would do all those things for me.  I am so glad he calls me "friend."

When Its Not Spelled Out...

Today in my reading in the Pursuit of Holiness by Jerry Bridges, I came across something that I would like to share with you and since this is my blog, I decided that I will share them whether you like it or not (LOL).

Today's chapter was discussing on how to put sin to death.  The author said that one of the best ways to deal with sin that trips us up so often is to see what scripture as to say about that certain sin.  However, he brought up the point that there are certain things that scripture does not spell out for us that people, including me, struggle with. 

Mr. Bridges poses this question.  "...what about issues that are not specifically mentioned in the Scriptures--how do we determine God's will and develop conviction in those areas?"  What I love about this question is that he gives somewhat of an answer.  He gives a formula to consider when dealing with this issue.


"Everything is permissible for me'--but not everything is beneficial" (1 Corinthians 6:12). 

• Question #1--Is it helpful--physically, spiritually, and mentally?

"Everything is permissible for me'--but I will not be mastered by anything" (1 Corinthians 6:12).

• Question #2--Does it bring me under it power?

"Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause him to fall" (1 Corinthians 8:13).

• Question #3--Does it hurt others?

"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God"
(1 Corinthians 10:31)

• Question #4--Does it glorify God?

I would like to challenge you the next time that you are dealing with a situation where the Bible is "silent," to consider this formula for determining whether its God's will or not.

It would be a lot easier sometimes if it was all spelled out.

I Hate It When God Kicks My Butt!!!

I am finally reading a book that has been on my shelf forever.  Well, not really forever, but you know what I mean.  If you are like me, I have several books on my shelf that I purchased or that I was given that I just never got around to reading.  Maybe I am the only one who does this.  Anyway, I stumbled upon a book that my pastor gave me when I was in upper high school or early college.  It is the classic book by Jerry Bridges entitled The Pursuit of Holiness.

While reading the introduction to this book, I discovered something.  I discovered that there is a companion study guide with the book.  It is not one of those study guides that is in the back of the book.  No, it is a study guide that is separate.  It is a study guide on THE JUICE!!!  I did what any person would do at this point.  I jumped up and down like it was Christmas.  Are you kidding?  I don't jump doing anything.  It requires to much energy.  I sat down at my desk in my padded chair and found the study guide on amazon and bought it.

Last week I began this study.  I timed it out so that when I finished my one year Bible reading, which I finished, I could began this study.  I went into this study with the same mindset that you would have.  Here we go.  Just another Bible study, but God said no.  He has proceeded to show me several things in my life that need fixing.  He has showed me that holiness is not an option.  He showed me that I have a huge part to play in the process of holiness.  He showed me that even though I have "died to sin" that it is still there using a guerrilla type warfare to come at me.  He has shown me all this and it is only day number 5 of 12.  I guess you could say that God is kicking my butt!  I don't always like.  In fact, I hate it.  However, its needed.